Joan Rivers joked about her own funeral plans years before it happened. She passed in 2014, but her sharp-tongued legacy lives on.

Joan Rivers joked about her own funeral plans years before it happened. She passed in 2014, but her sharp-tongued legacy lives on.


October 6, 2025 | Quinn Mercer

Joan Rivers joked about her own funeral plans years before it happened. She passed in 2014, but her sharp-tongued legacy lives on.


Her Wit Was Relentless

Joan Rivers lived her life with unrelenting wit, courage, and irreverence. From stand-up comedy pioneer to fashion critic, she never shied away from any stage and left no subject unmocked, including herself. Her story is one of groundbreaking comedy, devastating personal loss, resilience, and a unique legacy that still influences the entertainment world today.

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Early Life And Ambition

Born Joan Alexandra Molinsky in Brooklyn in 1933, Rivers grew up in a middle-class Jewish family. She initially toyed with the idea of a career in anthropology, but her passion for performing pushed that idea aside. After Barnard College, she pursued a career in acting and comedy, with a deep desire to carve out a place for herself in comedy, which, just like so many other industries at that time, was male-dominated.

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Struggles In Early Career

In the 50s and early 60s, Rivers worked tirelessly in clubs and small theaters. She often found herself playing tiny venues for little money, but the intense pace of the work and the constant practice honed her biting style to a razor-sharp edge. With a mail box full of rejection slips from casting agents, Joan knew she had to be persistent. To keep her career going, she started to build a reputation as a sharp observational comic.

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First Breakthrough On Television

Rivers got her first real break when she appeared on The Tonight Show in 1965. Her sharp, fast-paced delivery made an impression on Johnny Carson, who famously predicted she would be one day be a star. The appearance put her into the public eye and secured her reputation as a talent in stand-up.

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Surrounded By Comedy Heavyweights

Breaking into stand-up during the 1960s and 70s meant competing with some of the sharpest comedic minds of all time. Rivers shared stages and airwaves with legends like George Carlin, Richard Pryor, Lily Tomlin, and Rodney Dangerfield (to name just a few), all pushing boundaries in their own individual ways. Standing out from the crowd in that golden era of comedy demanded both nerve and originality. That was where Joan’s fearless honesty quickly set her apart.

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Trailblazer For Female Comics

Rivers became one of the very few women to achieve stardom as a stand-up comic during the 60s and 70s. Her frankness about taboo topics, from marriage to sex, made people sit up and take notice. She showed that women could be just as biting, brash, and uncompromising as their male counterparts. Her approach opened doors for a lot of future female comedians.

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The Girl Most Likely To… (1973)

Rivers co-wrote the screenplay for The Girl Most Likely To…, a dark comedy loosely based on her life and image. The film starred Stockard Channing as a woman seeking revenge after being jilted, and Rivers’ script infused her by-now famliar sharp social satire. The film wasn't a box office hit, but it showed Rivers' ambition to reach beyond stand-up and TV.

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Writing For Newspapers And Books

Beyond scripts and jokes, Joan Rivers was always a prolific writer. She penned columns for publications like the Chicago Tribune, authored memoirs and humor books, and ghostwrote celebrity tell-alls. Her writing allowed her to get her voice into print and reach audiences even when she wasn’t on camera.

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She Directed Her First Film

In 1978, Rivers directed the comedy Rabbit Test, starring Billy Crystal in his film debut. The film, about the first “pregnant man,” was about as absurd as you can imagine. Though it received mixed reviews, her role behind the camera signaled her further willingness to take on challenges and cross boundaries in a male-dominated industry.

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Voice Work On The Electric Company

Joan Rivers lent her voice to The Electric Company, the children’s educational show, bringing her distinctive tone to animated segments and sketches. Her participation illustrated her range: one moment she cut through in stand-up, the next she taught spelling and vocabulary to kids, bridging adult comedy and kid’s TV.

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Guest Host On The Tonight Show

By the early 80s Johnny Carson was taking more and more time off from his regular hosting duties on The Tonight Show. After Carson signed a new contract in 1981 allowing him several weeks off including Mondays, Rivers got the opportunity to be a regular guest host for Carson.

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The Johnny Carson Rift

As the 80s went on the professional bond between Joan Rivers and Johnny Carson seemed unshakable, but when (unbeknownst to Carson) Rivers accepted an offer from Fox to host her own late-night show in 1986, Carson felt betrayed. The friendship ended abruptly, and the two never reconciled.

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The Late Show Starring Joan Rivers

Rivers became the first woman to host a late-night talk show with The Late Show Starring Joan Rivers. It was a historic opportunity but it came with more than its share of challenges. Fox executives began to grumble as ratings faltered. Rivers was fired in May 1987; Arsenio Hall would later take her place. Though the show was short-lived, it confirmed her as a television pioneer who broke gender barriers.

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Personal Tragedy And Resilience

Behind the laughter, Rivers went through deep personal challenges. In 1987, her husband Edgar Rosenberg tragically took his own life after he and Rivers were fired by Fox. The loss devastated her but also pushed her to rebuild, channeling grief into her work and redefining herself in the years that followed.

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Reinventing On Daytime Television

After her late-night setback, Rivers found success in the more sedate format of daytime TV. She launched The Joan Rivers Show in 1989; the program won her a Daytime Emmy for Outstanding Talk Show Host in 1990. It proved her ability to bounce right back and thrive even after public setbacks. The show ended in 1993 when the production company was unable to secure a network partner. Joan Rivers decided it was time to try something new.

Screenshot from The Joan Rivers Show (1989–1993)Warner Bros. Television Distribution, The Joan Rivers Show (1989–1993)

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Outspoken Fashion Commentator

In the 1990s and 2000s, Rivers reinvented herself yet again, this time as a fashion critic. Alongside her daughter Melissa, she co-hosted red carpet coverage and later Fashion Police. It was a far cry from the normal Hollywood practice of paparazzi and fawning coverage ; Rivers’ unfiltered commentary could be hilarious and biting, and became a pop culture staple, influencing how audiences consumed celebrity fashion.

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Reality TV And Beyond

Rivers also embraced reality TV, starring in Joan & Melissa: Joan Knows Best?. The show offered viewers a more personal look at her life and family dynamics. For four seasons, audiences got a close-up view of her comedic sharpness and vulnerability, revealing the woman behind the barbed jokes and polished public persona.

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Awards And Recognition

Rivers’ career spanned decades and earned her numerous accolades. Alongside her Daytime Emmy, she received Grammy nominations and a posthumous Grammy win for her audiobook Diary of a Mad Diva. The awards testified to her adaptability and talent across all these many different forms of media.

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She Wrote Several Books

Beyond stand-up and TV, Rivers wrote several books, both comedic and autobiographical, including Enter Talking and Still Talking. Her writing was self-deprecating humor with sharp-edged cultural critique from the same unvarnished perspective she delivered on stage.

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She Planned For Her Own Funeral

Rivers often joked about her own funeral. The subject of death was clearly on her mind, but instead of solemnity, she treated it with humor, and actually incorporated it into her stand-up routines. She wanted it to be glamorous, insisting she should be “in a Valentino gown” with “a wind machine so her hair would look like Beyoncé’s.”

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A Glamorous Goodbye In Her Own Words

In her book I Hate Everyone…Starting with Me (2012) , Rivers outlined the funeral of her dreams. She wanted “a huge showbiz affair” with paparazzi, celebrities, and mourners all crying in designer outfits. The jokes reflected her theatrical personality and determination to control her image, even while contemplating her final farewell from this Earth.

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Her Last Moments

On August 28, 2014, Rivers went into cardiac arrest while undergoing a routine throat procedure. She was rushed to Mount Sinai Hospital in New York City where doctors placed her on life support. She passed a week later on September 4 at the age of 81, leaving fans around the world in shock.

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Medical Controversy

Rivers’ sudden passing generated controversy as the surgical procedure was later criticized for numerous screw-ups and poor oversight. Reports revealed a litany of violations at the clinic, including unapproved procedures and delayed emergency response. The revelations left the public at a loss, raising a new round of questions about how safe medical facilities really are for patients.

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Reaction From The Comedy World

The comedy world was in mourning at Rivers’ loss. She received widespread praise for her trailblazing contributions. Fellow comedians from Kathy Griffin to Louis CK shared tributes, calling her fearless, uncompromising, and groundbreaking. Many comedians thought her death marked the end of the era when sharp-tongued wit was the main ingredient of comedy.

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A Star-Studded Funeral

Rivers’ funeral took place at Temple Emanu-El in Manhattan, in line with her Jewish heritage. Her wishes were fulfilled, as it was packed with celebrities, including Hugh Jackman, Sarah Jessica Parker, and Whoopi Goldberg. Howard Stern gave the eulogy. Hugh Jackman sang the number “Quiet Please, There’s a Lady On Stage” from the musical The Boy from Oz, honoring a personal request Joan had made to him.

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Final Resting Place

Rivers was buried at Forest Lawn Memorial Park in Los Angeles. The funeral followed all the traditional rites, but the presence of celebrities and fans made it feel a lot more like the showbiz shindig she had joked about not long before. Joan Rivers had left on her own terms.

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A Sharp-Tongued Legacy

Joan Rivers struggled hard through early rejection, tragedy, and setbacks but continued to reinvent herself. By pushing the boundaries of comedy, fashion, and television, she created space for younger generations of women in entertainment. Her voice and boundless energy still echo more than a decade after her passing.

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