October 1, 2024 | Sarah Ng

The Incredible Life And Sad Loss Of Dame Maggie Smith


The Loss Of A Legend

On September 27, 2024, the news of Dame Maggie Smith's sad passing cast a mournful shadow over the acting world. She was an undeniable legend—but few know her incredible life story.Maggie-Smith-Msn

A Surprising Passion

Born on December 28, 1934, Maggie Smith spent her childhood in Oxford. However, her love of acting was shocking as neither of her parents were too invested in the arts or even frequented the theater.

Dame Maggie Smith 1973 Unknown Artist, Wikimedia Commons

Her Parents Had Other Plans For Her

Smith spent her childhood in Oxford, where her father worked as a lab technician at Oxford University. Her mother—a secretary—always believed that her daughter might take after her, and end up in an administrative role. She couldn't have been more wrong.

Maggie Smithoneredsf1, Flickr

Her Mother Didn't Think She Was Pretty Enough

Quite tragically, Smith's mother didn't believe she had what it took to be an actress at all—especially "with a face like that". Thankfully, she never let her mother's incredulity stop her from pursuing her dreams.

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She Surprised Herself

In a 2019 interview, Smith shared, “Honest to God, I have no idea where the urge came from. It was such a ghastly time and we didn’t go to the theater. I got into terrible trouble once because the neighbors took me to the cinema on a Sunday".

Maggie SmithMike Lidgley, CC0, Wikimedia Commons

She Got Her Start In Shakespeare

Having caught the acting bug, Smith began honing her craft at the Oxford Playhouse when she was just 16. The following year, she starred as Viola in Shakespeare's Twelfth Night.

In fact, Shakespeare would play a major role in her career.

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Her First Oscar Nomination

Smith's role in Twelfth Night was only the beginning. She went on to perform in many Shakespeare productions and even received an Oscar nomination for her role in the film Othello. 

However, her true feelings about the playwright Shakespeare may surprise some.

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She Didn't Consider Shakespeare Her Forté

Speaking with The Guardian, Smith confessed, "Shakespeare is not my thing". She was especially thrown out of her comfort zone during the filming of Othello, in which she played opposite the great Laurence Olivier.

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On Working With Laurence Olivier

On working with Laurence Oliver, she commented, "I wanted to be a serious actress, but of course, that didn't really happen. I did Desdemona with great discomfort and was terrified all the time. But then everyone was terrified of Larry".

Maggie Smithmsrivergirl, Flickr

She Was A Singer

Though she might be best known for dry comedic delivery and humorous expressions, Maggie Smith also dabbled in a very different kind of performance in her youth. Some may be surprised to learn that she often took on singing roles in revues.

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She Was A Broadway Performer

However, in typical fashion, she often turned to self-deprecation to undermine her vocal talents. Producer Leonard Sillman was so convinced of her skills, he led her straight to her 1956 Broadway debut in New Faces. 

She later quipped, “I think Leonard was under this mad illusion that I could sing".

Maggie Smithoneredsf1, Flickr

No Amount Of Self-Deprecation Could Mask Her Talent

Though Smith may have poked fun at her musical prowess, there's no denying that she could sing up a storm. Broadway was just the tip of the iceberg, as the actress also had multiple appearances on The Carol Burnett Show where she sang her heart out.

However, there was one role that truly catapulted her to stardom.

Maggie Smith, Shirley MacLaine and Martha LevinsonVitya_maly, GoodFon

She Took On A Life-Changing Role

In 1969, Maggie Smith took on the role of one of her most famous characters—a teacher named Jean Brodie in The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie. She was so spectacular in it that she nabbed the Academy Award for Best Actress. But there was another special aspect to this role.

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)Twentieth Century, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)

She Shared The Spotlight With Her Husband

In the film, Smith also acted alongside her first husband, co-star Robert Stephens. The couple had tied the knot two years before they acted together in The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie—and they eventually welcomed two sons, Chris Larkin and Toby Stephens.

However, they were not destined for a "happily ever after".

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)Twentieth Century, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)

Her Husband Had Baggage

Reportedly, it was the formidable actor Laurence Olivier who'd issued a warning to Smith when her romance with Stephens first blossomed. He came with some baggage: a failed marriage and another child. But instead of listening to Olivier, she threw caution to the wind.

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)Twentieth Century, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)

He Drank Too Much

The actress later confessed that she had blinders on when it came to Stephens' nefarious habits—particularly his heavy drinking. However, in 1970, he did something so devastating, not even she could ignore the red flags.

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2Warner Bros., Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2

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She Felt "Hopeless" About Her Marriage

Smith's world plunged into darkness when her husband tried to take his own life in 1970. This grim event really pulled his mental health issues to the forefront. It got to the point where she began to feel utterly "hopeless" about the whole situation.

Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2Warner Bros., Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows: Part 2

He Cheated On Her

Discussing her first marriage, Smith has been quoted saying, "It got worse and then it went on getting worse and worse. In the end, it was destroying everybody. And he was having so many affairs".

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She Had To Leave Him

Eventually, her husband's addiction problems became too much for her to bear—their marriage reached a breaking point in 1973. But this certainly didn't make her give up on love.

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She Married Again

In the spring of 1975, Smith divorced Stephens—and only months later, she did something that seemed quite scandalous. She married again. This time, the lucky beau was Alan Beverly Cross. However, few know their heart-wrenching love story.

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She'd Met Him Before

You see, the year of 1975 wasn't the first time Smith had met Cross. In fact, the two had met much earlier, back when Smith was just 18 and he was 21. There was an undeniable spark between the actress and the playwright—but there was just one problem.

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He Asked Her To Wait For Him

Unfortunately, though chemistry brewed between Smith and Cross, he was still a married man. However, this didn't stop him from asking for Smith's hand in marriage anyway. He wanted her to wait for him to get a divorce—but she ultimately chose to marry Stephens instead.

Little did she know, this wasn't the end of her love story with Cross. 

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)Twentieth Century, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)

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She Finally Got Her Happy Ending

23 years after they first clapped eyes on one another, Smith returned to her old flame. This time, she got the romantic ending she so deserved: "I'm remarkably fortunate. When you meet again someone you should have married in the first place, it's like a script. That kind of luck is too good to be true".

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)Twentieth Century, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)

Her First Husband Disappeared From Her Life

Following her first divorce, it was Cross who stepped in as a father figure to Smith's two sons. Tragically, Stephens completely cut ties with his former family, meaning he was absent from his boys' lives.

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)Twentieth Century, The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)

He Passed Too Soon

Maggie Smith and Alan Beverly Cross went on to have a very successful and loving marriage—but sadly, he passed in 1998. He was only 66 years old. Smith never truly moved on from the loss of her second husband.

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She Missed Him For The Rest Of Her Life

Speaking about Cross, Smith once told The Guardian, "I still miss him so much it's ridiculous. People say it gets better but it doesn't. It just gets different, that's all". But that's not the most heartbreaking part.

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She Never Entertained Another Romance

So devoted was she to Cross, the actress just couldn't envision spending the rest of her life with another man. It was a definite "No way". Why? Well, because nobody would be able to measure up to him. This decision, however, had its consequences.

Downton Abbey (2010-2015)Carnival Films, Downton Abbey (2010-2015)

Her Thoughts On Loneliness

During a 2013 episode of 60 Minutes, Smith addressed whether she was lonely or not. Her response was gut-wrenching: "It seems a bit pointless, going on on one's own and not having someone to share it with". 

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Harry Potter Changed Her Life

Perhaps the role that changed Maggie Smith's life forever was her part in the Harry Potter films. At 67 years old, she became a familiar face to the younger generations. 

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She Brought A Beloved Character To Life

Her pitch-perfect performance as Professor Minerva McGonagall in 2001's Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone kicked off a new era for her, and she became a recurring character in all eight films.

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JK Rowling Chose Her

Reportedly, the author of the Harry Potter series, JK Rowling, hand-picked Smith for the role of Professor McGonagall—the only casting choice she insisted upon. However, making these films wasn't always a walk in the park for the actress.

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (2001)Warner Bros., Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (2001)

She Was Diagnosed With Cancer

In 2007, Smith had to face a terrifying diagnosis: mammary cancer. Upon finding the lump, she had been quite optimistic, assuming that it would be benign like a previous lump. Sadly, she was mistaken.

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (2001)Warner Bros., Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (2001)

She Struggled With Treatment

She later confessed that her battle against cancer was extremely difficult: “You feel horribly sick. I was holding on to railings, thinking, ‘I can’t do this'". But even in her darkest moments, the actress continued to show up for work.

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (2005)Warner Bros., Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (2005)

She Wore A Wig On Set

On the set of The Half-Blood Prince, Smith wore a wig because she'd lost all her hair due to chemotherapy, describing herself as a "boiled egg". Though she managed to power through the last few Harry Potter films, her experience with cancer changed her outlook on work.

Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (2009)Warner Bros., Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (2009)

She Was Scared To Return To Acting

Following her treatment and recovery, Smith felt daunted by the prospect of acting—especially in theater: “I think it’s the age I was when it happened. It knocks you sideways. It takes you longer to recover, you are not so resilient. I am fearful of the amount of energy one needs to be in a film or a play".

Downton Abbey (2010-2015)Carnival Films, Downton Abbey (2010-2015)

She Stole Scenes In Downtown Abbey

Though Maggie Smith may have felt discouraged by her health problems, she ended up taking on the part of yet another iconic character: the Dowager Countess of Grantham, Violet Crawley, in Downton Abbey. 

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She Swept The Awards

From 2010 to 2015, Smith injected her character with a fiery, hilarious stubbornness. She did such a magnificent job that she won many awards: three Emmys, a Golden Globe, four Screen Actor Guild awards, and a Bafta.

 The Lady in the Van (2015)BBC Films, The Lady in the Van (2015)

She Knew Daniel Radcliffe Before He Played Harry Potter

Though Maggie Smith worked with Daniel Radcliffe in Harry Potter, this wasn't the first time she'd worked with the actor. The two were actually co-stars in the 1999 show David Copperfield. 

Sister Act (1992)Touchstone, Sister Act (1992)

The End Of The Road

Sadly, on September 27, 2024, Dame Maggie Smith passed at the age of 89. 

Her two sons, Toby Stephens and Chris Larki, made a poignant public statement about their late mother: “It is with great sadness we have to announce the death of Dame Maggie Smith. She passed away peacefully in hospital early this morning, Friday 27th September. An intensely private person, she was with friends and family at the end. She leaves two sons and five loving grandchildren who are devastated by the loss of their extraordinary mother and grandmother".

Maggie Smith Featureflash Photo Agency, Shutterstock

She Touched Everyone She Worked With

In the wake of her passing, countless stars have come forward to share their condolences and memories of Smith. 

Daniel Radcliffe shared, “She was a fierce intellect, a gloriously sharp tongue, could intimidate and charm in the same instant and was, as everyone will tell you, extremely funny. I will always consider myself amazingly lucky to have been able to work with her, and to spend time around her on set. The word 'legend' is overused but if it applies to anyone in our industry then it applies to her. Thank you, Maggie".

Maggie SmithEverett Collection, Shutterstock


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